Work With Tej
The most unique and powerful thing about coaching and consulting sessions with Tej is what you will experience when you are supported in bringing unrelenting focus on the goodness of your own heart.
Tej's coaching centers around the following essential and ongoing inquiries:
- What is your purpose for being at any point in time?
- Can you drop down out of your constantly chattering mind into stillness?
- Are you free to feel fully, whatever you're feeling?
- Do you experience your relatedness to others and to the greater whole?
- What do you truly want in any given moment and does what you want align with your purpose, mind, emotions and connection to others?
All life issues – personal insecurities, relationship questions, work confusion, spiritual longing, family complexities, health problems, lack of prosperity – become entry points into greater wisdom, love and joy. They can be portals into being more clear, present, real, connected and heart-directed. Rather than thinking that something is broken or needs to be fixed, these life issues themselves can bring us into greater understanding and peace.
Tej’s approach, whether with individuals, couples, families, organizations or businesses, centers around holding space for these essential inquiries to surface organically and naturally in their own way. His focus is not on arriving at a final destination but rather coming into an ever-deepening richness that is accessed together.
There are no formulaic steps or one-size-fits-all solutions. He doesn’t pretend to know what is true or best for another. He simply supports people in finding their purpose for being, their quiet mind, their full range of feelings, their empathic nature and heart wisdom.
Reasons why Tej is an effective life coach:
- He loves.
- He’s intuitive, empathic and highly experienced as a coach.
His greatest gift is his capacity to be present with others. This presence draws forth the presence of those he’s coaching. Since presence is love, Tej essentially draws forth people’s unlimited capacity to love. This begins with self-love which is one name for the everyday practice of loving all of one’s self, particularly one’s own misperceived unworthiness and weaknesses. It continues with loving and being real with others.
He encourages people to be present to their purpose, to the mysterious creativity of their minds, to their amazing emotions, and to their connection to the whole. Being present to these inquiries gives anyone the ability to follow their own inner heart direction. This sustains presence.
$125 per hour
When most couples seek help from a counselor or coach for their marriage or partnership it usually is because there is a perceived problem, or problems, that have ended up in some kind of partnership crisis. The tendency in many traditional approaches is to then try to resolve or unwind these presenting problems. This approach is often laborious and rarely works.
In Tej’s coaching work with couples, he is interested in using the presenting problems as an opportunity for each partner to individually explore his or her deeper purpose for being in the relationship. His primary focus is to find out what, in general, keeps each partner from opening to love knowing that each person’s resistance to love will always show up as problems in the dynamics of the relationship.
With this approach, blaming the other for the marriage problems can be avoided so that there is room for greater awareness and self-love to emerge quickly and powerfully. The problems dissolve as awareness and self-love increases.
If one or both of the partners are not interested in exploring their own resistance to love, Tej works with that. If both are willing to explore their individual resistance, Tej works with that. In both cases, the presenting problems become portals into individual self-discovery and unconditional love, which is the ultimate reason for all committed relationships.
Tej also works with couples before getting married or before entering into deeper levels of commitment in order for them to have a clear framework for holding these issues of self-love and resistance to love before they turn into co-dependent, enmeshed relationship problems.
$175 per hour
Is your family the easiest place for you to relax and be yourself?
Is it the first place you go to give and receive inspirational and emotional support?
In your family, are personal differences celebrated and encouraged?
Can you count on each other no matter what?
Is your family fun to be in?
Is your family filled with unresolved tension, disappointment, closed hearts and pressure to conform?
Is it the place where you feel least seen, supported and encouraged?
Do you find it easier to disconnect from your family than deal with its hidden agendas, roles and rules?
Do you dread family gatherings?
If it’s the latter, you could try family therapy and hope each family member will change. But this kind of change can take years and thus a great deal of money. Plus, counting on others to change doesn't usually work out very well.
There is a way to dramatically change your relationship with your family that doesn't take therapy or long periods of time because it’s not about getting your family members to change.
You can instead open up your relationships with each member quietly, under the radar, without them even knowing it’s happening until they feel you change! In this way, your family will change in response to your change. And that can happen quickly.
Even better, if you have two or more family members who are willing to explore how to transform themselves in this way, your family can become everything that you have wanted it to be…and much, much more.
Tej works with any number of family members who want to explore Transformational Circle Dynamics as they apply specifically to your family. This work provides you with a powerful framework and a practical map for how family members can come into deeper trust and intimacy with one another. His family member sessions are revolutionary, practical, personal and highly experiential.
What you will experience doing this work can be used with your circle of friends or within any organization or business in which you are a member. If you can create a more rewarding sense of family within your own family, you can come into greater connection with anyone you want!
$125 per hour for first family member. Add $50 per hour for each additional family member. For families larger than 4 people please contact Tej.
Most schools, businesses and organizations work only fractionally as well as they could for one simple reason: they often pay little attention to the quality of the interconnections between the people working within the organization. This especially includes the interconnection between those in positions of power and those with little or less power. As a result, the organization functions only at the level of people working as a collection of individuals rather everyone working within a unified group where the group field, itself, enhances and supports individual excellence, commitment and cooperation.
Tej will work with you to help you create this group field so that it functions as the heart of your organization. Contact him directly for a free consultation on how you can work together to achieve this.
Please contact Tej regarding pricing for family sessions and other group, organizational or business consulting inquiries. Payments for such sessions can be made here.